Why does LGBTQIA+ visibility matter to you?
I think representation is a part of a bigger picture. Representation that does not result in concrete legal and cultural changes is representation for representation’s sake. But well written characters, that change hearts and minds and that show Queer and or non-white kids what their future could look like, is incredibly vital.
In your own words, what does “LGBTQIA+ safety and support” mean specifically?
I don’t think LGBTQIA+ safety and support is any different than safety and support for any person — to be seen, accepted and respected as the person that you are. I think that’s the most frustrating part of working in LGBTQ Advocacy — we’re not asking for any special treatments or accommodations, we’re just asking for equality and respect like any other person. We shouldn’t have to ask, and it’s frustrating to have to.
Who are some of your LGBTQIA+ heroes?
The first time I was made aware of LGBTQ People was watching Ellen’s talk show. I can only imagine how many young people have the same story, and I’ve always admired the barriers that she broke. And being in music, how can you not love Brandi Carlile, Elton John and Michael Stipe?
If you could give LGBTQIA+ youth one message, what would it be?
I think it was Julien Baker that said something along the lines of, “Things don’t get better, but you get better at dealing with things.” I think that’s an important message — there will always be challenges, but when you’re able to grow and learn from your challenges, the next time you face them they get much, much easier. So hold on — you can persevere through anything.
Tell us about a time when you felt like the work you do at your organization really mattered or made a difference for the communities you serve?
Whenever I visit a partner center like Safe Place For Youth, I’m able to see the services, compassion and hope they provide for their clients. That’s an amazing moment. And whenever our partners have a meaningful interaction with a show, that is fantastic to see. I’ve been lucky enough to witness this at all the TAC shows I’ve been to.
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